Can I be honest and admit I have so many thoughts about rest to share that they won’t all fit in one blog post? Over the next couple of weeks, I’ll be sharing more thoughts (and some secrets) for creating a lifestyle of rest.
Have you ever pictured rest as a pathway to freedom? I’m going to guess that, for most of us, rest has not ranked high on our list of priorities, well maybe, ever. Some of us even privately view “R-E-S-T” as a four-letter word, not to be spoken or thought upon . . . much. “Rest” received a bad rap in Christendom and in our society. Those who rest are considered lazy, or they’re not achieving all that they can. Those who rest must lead boring lives or aren’t living up to their potential. Are there secrets for creating a lifestyle of rest?
As we head into Thanksgiving and Christmas and into 2021, let’s consider rest. We’re moving into a time of the year where a holy quiet invites us into deeper fellowship with the Lord . . .
. . . into pondering the birth of Jesus,
. . . into meditating on deeper truths.
Instead of rest and stillness, though, we’re spiraled into busy-ness, We spin, trying to do all the normal daily things and piling on all the holiday activities and obligations.
S T O P.
Somehow, we must slow the pulsing demands we—and others—place upon us.
What Does it Mean to Rest?
What do you envision when you think of rest? Curling up in a soft blanket with a favorite warm beverage and a good book? A hot soak in a bath? Sleeping in until 10:00 in the morning?
Put simply, rest (according to Jeanne) is identifying the areas in your life where you’re depleted and doing activities that refresh you in those areas. I’ll talk more about this later.
Rest = Refreshment for our bodies, souls, spirits . . . for every part of who we are.
I know. That little equation appears simplistic. Actually creating a lifestyle of rest takes hard work.
There are two general categories for rest:
Active-doing those things that refresh the various aspects of who we are (we will talk more about this later)
God created us to need rest. So, why do we ignore this need and disobey our Father?
In the Ten Commandments, He said, “Remember the Sabbath day, to keep it holy.” This wasn’t an “If you feel like it, take a break” suggestion. It was a commandment. And this is mentioned throughout the Old Testament.
4 Actions for Laying a Foundation for Rest
1. Before we can cultivate a pattern of rest in our lives, we must first explore why we stay busy. Can I be honest and say I’m a people-pleasing, yes-girl? But I’m working on this.
Here are a few things that can drive one to busy-ness:
- We find our value or worth in being busy. Someone asks and we say yes.
- We like to feel needed/indispensable
- We base our identity on what we do
- We’re trying to fill a hole inside us
- We’ve said yes to too many things and don’t know how to back out of them
So, I’m asking, what drives you to stay busy?
Secret: We must check what motivates our busy-ness and figure out what needs we’re trying to fill.
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2. Be still and know God more. When we spend time with God in His word and in prayer, we can ask for His perspective on how we spend our time. When we invite God into the process of evaluating our motives and schedules, He will show us the changes we need to make.
3. Secret: We need to give ourselves permission to set things aside to refresh ourselves through active rest (again, more later).
4. We need to set boundaries on our time. When we say yes to something, we must say no to many other things.
When we commit to these actions, we lay a healthy foundation for rest.
Secret: If we intend to create a lifestyle of rest, we must redefine the importance of rest and evaluate the excuses we make for not giving ourselves permission to rest.To create a lifestyle of rest, we must redefine the importance of rest and examine our excuses for not giving ourselves permission to rest. #choosingrest #tellhisstory Click To Tweet
Sometimes God brings us to a place where “we either choose rest, or it chooses us” (and not usually in very nice ways). ~Dr Saundra Dalton-Smith MD, Author of Sacred Rest
Secret: Creating a lifestyle of rest takes work, and it requires a change in our mindsets.
When we invest ourselves into making rest a priority, we’re choosing to place our plans, our agendas, and our worries in God’s hands. Only then will we experience the freedom that rest offers.
What about you? What in your life makes it hard to rest? In what area of your life is God inviting you to rest?